are there facilities for implementing external memory or do I have to make a function that write row, write colunmn, read/write data?
I'm confoosed, both tose talk about 'file system' I want to access it as RAM
Not sure what tose (those) you are talking about. I am not seeing any reference to "file system" in Westonsupermare's post. He was just mentioning that accessing flash can mean more than just doing a memory read/write. Since you are not accessing NOR or NAND flash, you will not need to go through any "gyrations"
When you configure the FMC, you are telling the processor how to specifically manipulate the the Address Lines / Data Lines / Read/Write etc. lines connected to the external Memory when a memory READ/WRITE is made to a specific address range. There are multiple address ranges (referred to as Banks) so you can connect more than one type of external memory with different timing associated with it. You configure then in the FMC as Bank1,Bank2...
Once it is configured your program will reference it like any other RAM/memory device (LDR, STR, x = 5; what ever).
Look in the SFM32F4 Reference Manual under the Flexible Memory Controller Section (FMC)
This section discusses configuring the FMC for accessing Static RAM, SDRAM, NOR Flash and NAND Flash.
For a good example on setting up and accessing SDRAM, look at the examples related to the STM32F429 Discovery board.
I'm not sure what you're referring too, the FMC/FSMC is the external memory bus controller, and provides signalling required by the memory devices to be accessible via LDR/STR instructions in the same fashion as internal memory, just slower
Maybe the op should ask his teacher for help ;)